Dear All,
There is this issue on my mind… bugging me & it won't stop till I give it a try & actually jot it down. Why would everyone say that it's hard to study & work simultaneously? It's not the fact of time & the tiredness it brings, which is my main concern. Everyone can manage their time… & it would be an easy task to handle all duties at work & attending the class.
As a matter of fact, if we were only supposed to study (I mean attend the class, do researches, home works & all) & have our jobs (mainly the 8 to 4 schedule) it wouldn't be that hard of task to handle.
It is the social circle of the friends & family that make it hard. We all have our duties as Daughters, mothers, spouses, fathers, sons, & siblings. We have a clique of friends we have to keep not only for their benefits, but also for the time we have spent maintaining their cherished friendships. & In School, namely an
Thus, the pressure of your social life is what mostly hinders you from enjoying your job & studies at the same time. It is by fact hard to handle all the social commissions around you… they interfere with each other; duties overlap & you have to push yourself to make everyone satisfied. Even the greatest time managers, have difficult time handling the situation.
The solution? I have none! Maybe, just maybe, if we start learning that it's not up to satisfy everyone & maybe if we learn that WE ourselves come first & set the priorities, then we would be able to handle social pressure…. This & the major help & understanding from our beloveds who think they have a right over us, would help us get better of the time we spent doing what we love: Study & Work together.
Regards,
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